“Life is a mystery” I hear you say. That sounds exciting and certainly something not to be missed.

Indeed, how can we miss life? Perhaps we are not missing life but, rather, we a missing solving the mystery of life. Are you part of it or are you a spectator in your own life. You may claim that you don’t really like mysteries so you will rather stay out of it. You will now, will you, stay of out it? Your own life? I can’t leave you like this, so I will give you a clue to solving it. Your life is only a mystery because you let life slip away from you. In doing so, things have become blurry and it’s almost maze-like. A dark haze has descended. I am exaggerating on this last point. Only for some life has become so burdensome. It need not be like that and change is needed, and everybody has that ability to change things.

When the window to life is misted up, we have to demist it. But when life becomes a mystery then we have to demystify it. We start with a simple truth ” It’s My Life”. Believe it is your life and that you wish to make the best of your life. You will take control after learning and acquiring the means to do so. You will enter your life, yes your life, and clear it of all the intrigue, the sorrow, the helplessness and submissiveness. It may difficult for you to read this and know exactly what to do. The objective is firstly to realise that you have the ability to change things. The second part is to be on a path of learning to effect change and maintain a path that is beneficial for you. As part of this learning you need to walk a path of change, seeking the helping hand while you find the strength to continue by yourself.

Life need not be a mystery, let’s solve it. Believe “It’s MY Life” and make the changes to be the best you can be.

 

 

 

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