Did you know that two sides of a coin tell two different tales? Yet it is one unit, always attached, enduring life together and one day when the coin is obsolete or destroyed, both sides will have the same fate. It can be confusing when you cannot make out heads or tails of what is happening.
In marriage, it may not always be that “until death do us part” but neither does it mean that every time a coin is flipped, your mood too should flip as your call is not the side the coin lands. Consider the situation where the goal is the same but your thoughts and ideas, in that moment, for that specific activity are different. You had hoped that your spouse will have read your mind and inclined to your thinking while she may be looking for a similar outcome on her differing idea. The old cliché “and that is how the fight started” does, in fact, become a reality many-a-time in cases like these. No doubt, there are real issues which can be critical to a marriage, and few may result in the breakup of the marriage. It is worth noting for yourself which matters are dealbreakers in your marriage. It is also better that these matters come to light early on in the marriage so that the potential for correction is easier. Sometimes problems can crop up later in life when spouses grow apart. But this must be rarity and not happen with the frequency that it does. You must reflect on your situation and condition, irrespective of the stage of your life. Always seek the necessary assistance and guidance to correct or steady your course while current conditions may suggest some turbulence. And even if not reflecting turbulence, commit to that which you are doing well and polish those aspects that look a tiny bit jaded.
If you flip the coin enough times, what will be the count of heads and tails?
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