Recipes are about ingredients, method and outcome or product. What do you think is the expected outcome from one who does not fully know what he is doing? In a way, in days gone by, there was generally someone to ask who may then guide you. Today, social media is the solution, or shall we say, people use social media as the platform on which to live their lives.
Plaudits to those who are not on social media or who use social media sparingly and with discretion. People were always gossiping but social media have magnified it to such a degree that it created its own blackhole. Of course, the ignorant may not know they are ignorant and openly display their ignorance as if it was a commodity in demand. People seek marriage advice on public forums as an act of desperation rather than finding real solutions to issues. Of course, there may be extenuating circumstances, but it is dicey, to say the least, to take advice in such forums. The youth are mesmerised by vanity, a word used in broad terms here. Suffice it to say, while most find themselves on at least one social media platform, their glimpse into someone else’s life plants seeds, some of which may germinate. The view of life changes by what they experience on social media. Of the dangers is falling for quick money schemes, drooling over the lives of celebrities and chasing fancy job titles. Yet most youth are unable to do a household budget or understand career paths. The wellbeing of people, for the most part, are trivialised by social media notwithstanding the good that some are able to do on these platforms and beyond. Most matters, as noted above, need dedicated, focused and individual attention. Wellness management is mostly ignored. Your connection with your Creator is far beyond social media platforms even though some may somehow find joy and peace in the “spiritual connection” on these platforms. Ultimately, if you consider that social media is like a current, then it will carry you out to the rough sea, to be battered wave after wave. Much like the warning sign on a beach to not enter the water, people will still enter, often with dire consequences. You always have choices – you can listen to the constant barrage of social media influenced information or you can seek out the focused solutions for yourself and perhaps your family. Whatever the situation, wellness on every front from stress, self-development, relationship matters, health, etc, seek the right and focused assistance.
Be methodical like you are designing the most elaborate palace, like you are baking and decorating the most exquisite cake, and whatever fantastical idea you can imagine, so take your life into consideration to make the make awesome “you” you can be.
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