It is not unusual for people to migrate and find a new place in which to settle. They may have moved away from their birthplace, but in their heart there is a sweet spot for it. That is an attachment, a form of love. Yet people, when they separate from someone feel the need to “unlove” – how does this work?
Love is something special. It is from deep inside the heart. To unlove someone takes a special tool or event. There is something, and each one may have his own, that can trigger the “unlove” button. But that you will know instantaneously.
Your question , therefore, clearly indicates that love exist and you are hoping to unlove someone, without necessarily hating them. That is because to go from love to hate is huge. You don’t have to unlove someone to part ways and keep a distance. If it is as you say “too much pain” then move on without overthinking it and overcomplicating things. Parting ways has little to do with love. You can part for many reasons. The presence or absence of love it not a prime determinant but may play a role.
Be true to yourself and don’t give up on love but thinking negatively about it. Carry that person in your heart even when you are apart. You protect yourself by not letting yourself get hurt. You don’t protect yourself by unloving someone. carry on with life and do what is good for you. Let love rest where it has made its nest. Just let the brain be the organ to help make your decisions sane.
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