Dark Clouds gathered. Gentle rain fell. Violent winds blew in. A magnificent storm was unleashed. Did love drown in all of this? Was it blown away? Then it was found, a little battered and somewhat worse for wear. It was dragged home and lived quietly until eventually its owner departed to live under the black sand of the earth.
Life is like that. There was love and all was rosy while a relationship blossomed as if life was only about the golden rays of the sun. How dare no one advise that time does not stand still but brutally allows storms of all magnitudes to enter our space. How love suffers in all of this until it is scarcely even mentioned. Strangers turned to lovers and to almost strangers again. Life has given love a new meaning and the relationship has become convenient with love whimpering in a dark corner having given up of being the bedrock of the relationship.
This is true for most marriages but it’s not all bad. As you get older and get aches and pain that needs attention, so too does your relationship need attention. Some ailments may require amputation or something similar while with others a gentle massage is all that is needed.
Marriages of convenience is not all bad. It can be better with love of course. The one thing to guard against is whether you have crossed the line where love is replaced by all things negative including deep-seated hatred.
Your relationship always needs assessment – for your happiness – for love and peace.
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