The right ingredients make for a tasty, hopefully somewhat wholesome, meal. Tastebuds, trained over many years in a certain way, and influenced by your own physiological state, will not agree with many others on the ideal meal. Such is success, it differs from person to person based on a large variety of factors.
Sometimes you see those who go for the dessert before even the starter, let alone the main course. You will agree that the main course is the substance of the meal. The starter represents your preparation much like a warmup before some physical exercise. Overdoing it will obviously spoil what is to follow. In life, your preparedness for what lies ahead is in your basic warmup, your fine-tuning of aspects of your personality, your engaging in that which is within your “tastes” (your likes) of the occupation, career, or whatever of vocation suits you. Your idea of success does not have to agree with anyone else’s idea of success in its detail. The concept of success may even differ. This concept of success is a rather important point. When you compare success of one versus another, then you may rob someone of their achievements, and they lose self-esteem and certainly confidence. It is because you may have not actually compared apples with apples. In short, what is crucial in success is the progress you make in life. There is even the odd chance, in some cases, that not regressing can be success. Don’t focus on this point too much because it does not apply to you directly, but you should know about it anyway.
You will be judged by others from time to time. Some judgments will be emotional. Some judgments will be superficial. It is you who must understand your progress and levels of success. When you are on the right track, you may be stubborn in your pursuit of what lies ahead. How will you know this? It is rather silly to be stubborn when you are digging into a meal which you neither like, nor is agreeable with your body. The person who is a “Mr Know-it-all” will hardly consult, seek assistance, become a protégé or seek a coach. This latter point is the first point in how you will know whether you are doing the right thing.
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