What is the worth of a coach if he does not help improve the life of others. In a way, this message somehow makes me a keyboard warrior, but it is in sessions and workshops where the more serious work takes place. It is always about the few, because only the few react and take action to remedy the issue/s in their lives.
On a social level, statistics show increase in many issues from marital to parental to peer pressure. The main problem that is less adequately addressed is that the youth are not ready for what is ahead of them. The pressures to cope with school and the matric results, then tertiary education and work. All the while new social norms confuse the living daylights out of everyone, and it is like receiving a massive Ottoman slap. At the pace life is moving, the need to re-educate and prepare well applies to everyone but at different levels depending on age and circumstances. And what is this re-education? Let’s understand it as that the train you are on may not end up where you would like. And therefore if the word “alternative” is not in your vocabulary in a big way, then it stands to reason that you have limited options, by choice or by design. How do you get off this train at an appropriate stop for you or how do you get to your destination if the train is not stopping there? Understand the need for planning and alternatives.
The memes about marriage abounds, but much of it is a form of stereo-typing while, on the other hand, your life is being lived because you remain “under circumstances” and because of societal pressures. If a mature adult is feeling the stress, and most are stressed and are doing nothing about it, then consider the youth who are put under a whole new regime of stress that adults have not experienced previously. So, how are you even helping them?
It is time for a change. It is time to act and address it before you helplessly throw your hands in the air out of hopelessness. Time to act before there is a point of no return, before a big calamity strikes. Seek to make a change and provide a better platform for your loved ones and those around you. Suicide rates are ever increasing, divorce rates are climbing exponentially, greater division in communities on all sorts of levels, and the poverty rate growing like it is overfed and your neighbour might be next. How are you positioned for all of this?
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